Comments on: Momma bear http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/ Tawdry quirk curators Mon, 30 Jan 2012 18:19:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: wendi http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5672 wendi Tue, 16 May 2006 13:55:38 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5672 it really upsets me when adults go tot he child instead of the attending adult. That makes me boil.. it really upsets me when adults go tot he child instead of the attending adult. That makes me boil..

]]> By: djuggler http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5391 djuggler Mon, 10 Apr 2006 19:47:10 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5391 I agree. And there were 6 adults at the table that she could have chosen to speak with instead of addressing the child directly. I agree. And there were 6 adults at the table that she could have chosen to speak with instead of addressing the child directly.

]]> By: Latte Man http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5390 Latte Man Mon, 10 Apr 2006 19:29:25 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5390 Whether or not there is something that could be done in the future, is a moot point, the lady that was so rude as to decide to pick this out in a busy crowded restaurant deserved to be thrashed about the face and neck... and taught some manners of her own. Even if this was the most hiddeous sound to man... in a QUIET location, there is still a way to go about it with manners and decorum, and this lady apparently knew nothing about either of those concepts. Whether or not there is something that could be done in the future, is a moot point, the lady that was so rude as to decide to pick this out in a busy crowded restaurant deserved to be thrashed about the face and neck… and taught some manners of her own. Even if this was the most hiddeous sound to man… in a QUIET location, there is still a way to go about it with manners and decorum, and this lady apparently knew nothing about either of those concepts.

]]> By: djuggler http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5389 djuggler Mon, 10 Apr 2006 18:34:12 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5389 I do not want to sleep alone tonight. The woman is right. The woman is right! But, I don't see how this is any different than us teaching him to keep his hand twitching under the table as to "be less noticeable." The noise was unbearable and stressful to non-aspies. The torment for Tommy and the exertion of selfcontrol he used to maintain himself must have been enormous. But he should have chosen something different, something that did not ring out over the noise of the crowd. We should have cued off his fidget choice and redirected him or offered him a break from the noise. I do not want to sleep alone tonight. The woman is right. The woman is right!

But, I don’t see how this is any different than us teaching him to keep his hand twitching under the table as to “be less noticeable.” The noise was unbearable and stressful to non-aspies. The torment for Tommy and the exertion of selfcontrol he used to maintain himself must have been enormous. But he should have chosen something different, something that did not ring out over the noise of the crowd. We should have cued off his fidget choice and redirected him or offered him a break from the noise.

]]> By: mom http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5388 mom Mon, 10 Apr 2006 15:20:00 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5388 Doug is sleeping alone tonight. Tommy was doing what he had to do to stay calm in a very noisy environment. Doug has forgotten how Tommy used to meltdown in the mall or Sams because the noise was overwhelming. Doug wasn't with Tommy and I when we were kicked out of a hotel at 2 in the morning because Tommy couldn't quit talking. Doug is sleeping alone tonight. Tommy was doing what he had to do to stay calm in a very noisy environment. Doug has forgotten how Tommy used to meltdown in the mall or Sams because the noise was overwhelming. Doug wasn’t with Tommy and I when we were kicked out of a hotel at 2 in the morning because Tommy couldn’t quit talking.

]]> By: djuggler http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5387 djuggler Mon, 10 Apr 2006 15:12:05 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5387 Tommy was out of line. Tommy was out of line.

]]> By: ben http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5386 ben Mon, 10 Apr 2006 13:39:08 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5386 I second Latte Man. And, I think that looks like a cool toy, thanks for the link! I second Latte Man. And, I think that looks like a cool toy, thanks for the link!

]]> By: Latte Man http://domesticpsychology.com/2006/04/09/momma-bear/comment-page-1/#comment-5385 Latte Man Mon, 10 Apr 2006 13:13:43 +0000 http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/2006/04/09/momma-bear/#comment-5385 Oh, my dear! You should not have allowed this to go unchecked. Self-Important Twits like this lady need a lesson that can only be taught in public, with humiliation. Sorry you had to endure it. Oh, my dear! You should not have allowed this to go unchecked. Self-Important Twits like this lady need a lesson that can only be taught in public, with humiliation.

Sorry you had to endure it.

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