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		<title>Noah says:</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2011/08/02/noah-says-24/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 18:01:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Me: &#8220;How are you doing with your summer reading assignments?&#8221; Noah: &#8220;I&#8217;m really enjoying The Prince.&#8221; Me: &#8220;In what way?&#8221; Noah: &#8220;The characters in The Prince are also in Assassin&#8217;s Creed. That&#8217;s pretty cool.&#8221; Me:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me: &#8220;How are you doing with your summer reading assignments?&#8221;<br />
Noah: &#8220;I&#8217;m really enjoying The Prince.&#8221;<br />
Me: &#8220;In what way?&#8221;<br />
Noah: &#8220;The characters in The Prince are also in Assassin&#8217;s Creed. That&#8217;s pretty cool.&#8221;<br />
Me: <- facepalm -></p>
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		<title>&#8220;Feed&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2011/07/03/feed-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 00:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since Jedi Camp was in Oak Ridge, I did a lot of waiting between drop-off and pick-up. One day, I used my waiting time to read &#8220;Feed&#8221; by M.T. Anderson. Feed is a young adult fiction novel that is a cautionary tale, a la Reefer Madness, about the dangers of technology, social media and the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since Jedi Camp was in Oak Ridge, I did a lot of waiting between drop-off and pick-up. One day, I used my waiting time to read &#8220;Feed&#8221; by M.T. Anderson. Feed is a young adult fiction novel that is a cautionary tale, a la Reefer Madness, about the dangers of technology, social media and the &#8220;feed&#8221; of advertising. It was the assigned summer reading for my teen&#8217;s high school until parents fussed about the book&#8217;s content. So, I read it.</p>
<p>I would have read it even if it hadn&#8217;t caused controversy. I can&#8217;t chat with my children about their reading assignments if I haven&#8217;t read them and teen fiction is about as difficult to read as popcorn is to microwave. The fact that some parents declared it inappropriate just moved it to the top of my reading queue. </p>
<p>The book is written by an adult trying to use future teen lingo. The author starts out with a few profanities woven into the teenspeak that he has created, so that readers can understand the message and mood the teens are communicating. Without the initial use of familiar words, the full impact of the teens&#8217; aimless disconnect from the world outside of their social circle would be lost on readers. The words that are commonplace regardless of how much parents shelter their teens, fade from the book&#8217;s text after a few chapters.</p>
<p>The book is actually an excellent choice for high school summer reading. It is one giant conversation starter for adolescents. With the exception of the author&#8217;s glaring observation that marketing isn&#8217;t just targeting everything we do, but actually changing who we are, the topics for discussion don&#8217;t have easy answers and teens are allowed to individually form their own opinions and ideas. Under the guidance of teachers, conversations and essays that sprout from the seeds of this story could become insightful analysis of our culture, our world and our survival.</p>
<p>I am disappointed that the school had to offer an alternative choice and stifle the school-wide discussions that should happen about Feed. The fact that the alternative choice is something my teens read in fifth grade makes an otherwise good book seem much too childish for 14 and 15-year-old adolescents whose real lives are likely far more colorful than a few curse words.</p>
<p>Read <a href="http://www.epubbud.com/book.php?g=37XXZRFY">Feed</a> for yourself and tell me if you think it is a good summer reading assignment for high school students.</p>
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		<title>Reading</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2011/06/19/reading/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 22:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know what helped Tommy learn how to read. Since he had a &#8216;do worksheets or I&#8217;ll shrug&#8217; teacher for Kindergarten, I know that he didn&#8217;t learn to read at school. At home, we did flashcard drills, watched a million hours of PBS, drew letters in shaving cream and wrote with chalk or crayons [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know what helped Tommy learn how to read. Since he had a &#8216;do worksheets or I&#8217;ll shrug&#8217; teacher for Kindergarten, I know that he didn&#8217;t learn to read at school. At home, we did flashcard drills, watched a million hours of PBS, drew letters in shaving cream and wrote with chalk or crayons daily. I read out loud, taped words to everything in the house, made alphabet soup to play with our food and spent weeks talking in rhyme. Before he turned six, Tommy could read. Once he had a basic grasp of reading, he read anything and everything, improving so rapidly that he finished everything Tolkien before middle school.</p>
<p>Sarah learned to read because of and for praise from her Kindergarten teacher. Sarah&#8217;s teacher made every child in the classroom feel loved and in return, the students worked eagerly for the teacher they adored. After Kindergarten, Sarah continued to be a good student, but she didn&#8217;t read for pleasure until she discovered Harry Potter. </p>
<p>Noah learned to read from his big sister. Sarah forced Noah to spend hours playing school. She hovered over him with books so frequently that he began Kindergarten with basic reading abilities. His Kindergarten teacher refused to acknowledge this and spent most of her time forcing him to use his right hand and reprimanding his behavioral objections to using the wrong hand and sitting still. By the end of Kindergarten, Noah preferred being immersed in a book over doing anything else. Noah still loves to read. Right now, Noah is reading. He won&#8217;t stop until he finishes this novel. Then, he&#8217;ll find a new book and start reading again.</p>
<p>Amy&#8217;s Kindergarten teacher taught her to read. Amy improved her reading skills at the same speed as her peers until she discovered the Kindle. The Kindle was the spark that made Amy love reading. I regularly find her reading while hiding under a blanket far past her bedtime. Most of the time, I pretend not to catch her.</p>
<p>Evan had a wonderful Kindergarten teacher. He had (and still has) two parents and four siblings reading to him every night. We practiced his sight words until he didn&#8217;t even pause to read them. Amy bribes Evan to play school a few times a week. With all of that, I truly believe that the tipping point for Evan learning to read was texting. He started out sending gibberish messages on my Twitter account, then proceeded to texting family and friends with my phone. Now, Evan and Amy regularly chat with the text program on their DSiXLs.</p>
<p>All of this is a very long way of saying that every child learns differently. Their strengths, weaknesses, motivations and enthusiasm come in endless varieties of combinations. There is no assembly line formula for teaching children to read. <a href="http://schoolmatters.knoxnews.com/forum/topics/14-teachers-jobless-reading">Eliminating</a> proven techniques for helping students learn to read is a recipe for failure. Failure for the neediest, highest risk students. The future for children who don&#8217;t learn to read is dismal. Allowing it to happen because it&#8217;s someone else&#8217;s child is a human tragedy. The money we save now is nothing compared to the cost of supporting and cleaning up the acts of desperation by those who didn&#8217;t learn.</p>
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		<title>Friday night</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2011/06/13/friday-night-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 17:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<title>summer reading</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2010/06/01/summer-reading/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 11:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ahhh, June first and the start of summer fun school assignments. The youngest children don&#8217;t have formal assignments, so they get to choose their own books and we casually work on specific skills. Evan excels at numbers, so we are learning what sounds belong to each letter. Amy&#8217;s reading and writing abilities are amazing, so [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahhh, June first and the start of summer <strike>fun</strike> school assignments.  The youngest children don&#8217;t have formal assignments, so they get to choose their own books and we casually work on specific skills.  Evan excels at numbers, so we are learning what sounds belong to each letter.  Amy&#8217;s reading and writing abilities are amazing, so she needs to work on numbers.</p>
<p>Noah and Sarah have assigned summer reading.  Noah normally absorbs a novel a day, but he is less than thrilled at his new books.  Noah is going to read:<br />
&#8220;The Secret Life of Bees&#8221; by Sue Monk Kidd<br />
&#8220;Anthem&#8221; by Ayn Rand*<br />
&#8220;Of Mice and Men&#8221; by John Steinbeck<br />
&#8220;I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings&#8221; by Maya Angelou<br />
&#8220;The Greatest Generation&#8221; by Tom Brokaw</p>
<p>Sarah is going to read:<br />
&#8220;How to Read Literature like a Professor&#8221; by Thomas Foster<br />
&#8220;1984&#8243; by George Orwell<br />
&#8220;Frankenstein&#8221; by Mary Shelley<br />
&#8220;Heart of Darkness&#8221; by Joseph Conrad<br />
&#8220;The Greatest Generation&#8221; by Tom Brokaw</p>
<p>&#8220;The Greatest Generation&#8221; is on both lists because the school wants every student to read it.  The teachers didn&#8217;t include it on their printed lists.  Sarah took this as a sign that it was optional.  I took it as understood, since everyone is supposed to read it.  I don&#8217;t care if they discuss &#8220;The Greatest Generation&#8221; in basket weaving class, but they&#8217;d better discuss it at some point this year or my name will be mud.</p>
<p>Sarah also has a summer art portfolio and college shopping to get done while Noah learns how to be a part of the marching band.  Tommy thinks his summer will be spent sleeping until noon and playing games all night.  I&#8217;m going to schedule play dates to force him to interact with others and get out of his room.  I&#8217;m a brutal taskmaster.  </p>
<p>*I hate this choice.  Like last year&#8217;s Catcher in the Rye, I would happily trade for a different book if it was an option.</p>
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		<title>children&#8217;s books were different in 1941</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2010/04/11/childrens-books-were-different-in-1941/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 01:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;He kidnapped him!&#8221; &#8220;The man in the yellow hat smokes?&#8221; &#8220;George almost drowned!&#8221; &#8220;He let a monkey smoke?&#8221; &#8220;This book is weird.&#8221; &#8220;I liked the movie better.&#8221;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;He kidnapped him!&#8221;<br />
&#8220;The man in the yellow hat smokes?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curious_George">George</a> almost drowned!&#8221;<br />
&#8220;He let a monkey smoke?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;This book is weird.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I liked the <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0381971/">movie</a> better.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Dear English teacher,</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2010/01/08/dear-english-teacher/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:09:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are so many wonderful books that are considered classics. Having to narrow it down to one semester&#8217;s worth of choices is something I have discussed with others on more than one occasion. Your choices are somber and thought provoking. Even with the focus on emotional struggle that you have chosen, I have to question [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are so many wonderful books that are considered classics.  Having to narrow it down to one semester&#8217;s worth of choices is something I have discussed with others on more than one occasion.  Your choices are somber and thought provoking.  Even with the focus on emotional struggle that you have chosen, I have to question your inclusion of Chopin&#8217;s &#8220;<a href="http://www.americanliterature.com/KateChopin/TheAwakening/TheAwakening.html">The Awakening</a>.&#8221;  Yes, it certainly qualifies as a classic piece of literature.  It is also one of the most depressing books I have ever read.  I read it as an adult and it made me want to dress in black and comb my hair over my eyes.  I cannot imagine emotional roller coaster teenagers emerging from this book&#8217;s study enlightened.</p>
<p>I recognize that feminist literature choices tend to be pessimistic and misandrous.  I understand that you are trying to avoid literature that includes sexual themes.  Still, isn&#8217;t there anything that they could read which doesn&#8217;t romanticize suicide?  Are there no books for teens that are inspiring or hopeful?  Would it be terrible if they read a book that made them laugh?</p>
<p>Cathy</p>
<p>Reading List for this class:  The Awakening, In Cold Blood, Native Son, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Things They Carried, Life of Pi, The Sound and the Fury, The Grapes of Wrath and The Catcher in the Rye.</p>
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		<title>Scholastic Parents</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2009/06/04/scholastic-parents-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 03:34:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m still blogging at Scholastic Parents&#8217; blog. Drop by and say hello.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m still <a href="http://parentsblog.scholastic.com/blog/2009/06/lets-go-to-the-book-store.html">blogging</a> at Scholastic Parents&#8217; blog.  Drop by and say hello.<br />
<img src="http://domesticpsychology.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/scholastic-badge.gif" alt="scholastic-badge" title="scholastic-badge" width="194" height="176" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5703" /></p>
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		<title>how to buy a library book</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2009/02/06/how-to-buy-a-library-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 04:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Insist that you want applesauce in your school lunch. 2. In the school cafeteria, take one nibble of applesauce. 3. Return open applesauce to backpack. 4. Throw backpack around several times. 5. Let mom open backpack to discover applesauce in every nook and cranny of backpack, school work, folders AND a school library book. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. Insist that you want applesauce in your school lunch.<br />
2. In the school cafeteria, take one nibble of applesauce.<br />
3. Return open applesauce to backpack.<br />
4. Throw backpack around several times.<br />
5. Let mom open backpack to discover applesauce in every nook and cranny of backpack, school work, folders AND a school library book.<br />
6. Explain to confused mom that you didn&#8217;t like the applesauce and were bringing it back home for dad to eat.<br />
7. Skip away cheerfully as mother stands like a deer in headlights, staring at the applesauce disaster inside your once nice backpack.</p>
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		<title>read again. again. again.</title>
		<link>http://domesticpsychology.com/2008/08/05/read-again-again-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 15:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cathy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many times do I have to read the exact same book aloud to the 3-year-old before I can throw the book out the window and run screaming from the room? &#8220;The window, the window, she threw it out the window.&#8221; Four word sentences should be treated like four letter words. Just because I look [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many times do I have to read the exact same book aloud to the 3-year-old before I can throw the book out the window and run screaming from the room?  &#8220;The window, the window, she threw it out the window.&#8221;  Four word sentences should be treated like four letter words.  Just because I <em>look</em> like Dr. Frankenstein&#8217;s creation doesn&#8217;t mean I want to <em>sound</em> like him.  Actually, the creature spoke beautiful, tragically romantic dialogue.  He was just created a little too soon to bond with the Goths who would have happily sulked with him, their long hair hiding their eyes so that their black lips seemed exaggerated.  No, only the movie creatures speak in the monosyllabic, mind numbing repetition that children&#8217;s books are so fond of using.  I think I should strap the children in their carseats and drive the entire length of Kingston Pike while making them listen to an audio recording of <a href="http://www.literature.org/authors/shelley-mary/frankenstein/">Mary Shelley&#8217;s thinly veiled psychotherapy session</a>.  Or I could just read Evan that same primary-colored book again.  And again.  And again.</p>
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