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my Friday & Sunday drive

// February 22nd, 2009 // No Comments » // flickr, me, TN, travel

clicking without looking
I want to be IN the mountains.miles of calm
I love this drive. The drive up the Interstate is hectic and the journey through the small town is painfully slow, but from that moment on, the drive just makes me happy. It is calm, quiet and beautiful. I drive past pastures filled with cows, horses, donkeys, sheep, goats, buffalo and camels. Based on the road debris, there is a skunk farm with poor security somewhere near the other farms. The skunks don’t lessen the peace that I feel on this journey. There are beautiful homes and abandoned trailers. I occasionally lower my eyebrows at the giant trucks filled with trees going to the mills, but I just can’t get stuck worrying about anything when I am surrounded by the mountains. I live in a quiet city with a downtown community that seethes with disgust for people who live in the suburbs (or anything they label as the West part of town). I couldn’t stand to live downtown. I would suffocate on the street. I love my quiet neighborhood of tiny homes and big hearted people, but someday . . . maybe . . . if I’m very lucky . . . I can live in the mountains. If not, well, you know where to throw my ashes.

Dear Knox County Schools,

// January 29th, 2009 // 3 Comments » // local, school, TN

When School Matters was created, I pretty much stopped writing about school topics on this blog. As the site has gained users, I realized that I was spending more of my time nudging discussions and calming tempers than just writing what was on my mind. That ends now.

When the Superintendent search was narrowed down to a handful of candidates, I googled each finalist. The candidate who once complained that Boston’s $832M school budget needed more money seemed like a very bad fit for Knoxville’s $360M school budget. I guess I should have considered that our school board would see him as someone who could convince Knoxville to put more money in our schools. Knoxville schools need more money. Our businesses in Knoxville are laying off employees and folding faster than new jobs are being created. How are we going to provide more money when we all have less money?

So, here we are 6 months into the new Knoxville Super’s reign and his “vision” is being presented to Knoxville. He asks “How do we transform our system from a very good one to a better one?” In one KnoxViews thread, commenters praise the improved academic requirements in our system. In multiple School Matters threads, the discussion keeps returning to the fact that TN is 38th in the nation in ACT results and things like zero High Schools in TN making the list of the state’s best. Are we a “very good” system or a failing system? Of Knoxville’s 13 high schools, only 5 are not on NCLB’s naughty list. Our new Super wants to add a STEM high school. The school system’s budget for the next year can barely afford to replace one leaking roof. How are we going to build a new high school and where will it be?

The new Super has been visiting the schools. Everyone in the school has been told to smile and agree with everything the new Super says to them. They have also been told to keep their mouths shut about anything that is bothering them. With this absence of honest communication, anything that is not working optimally in our system is going to be kept that way.

The new Super has an assortment of other ideas, like giving teachers and students mentors. We already have that. His primary focus is on getting parents and students to change. He has a great plan to get parents more involved in their children’s education. He wants parents to learn how to continue the school day at their kitchen table. Seriously? What does he think we have been doing since we became parents? I don’t deny that we have a culture of ignorance in this area, but there are a LOT of very involved parents who have been working hard to supplement their children’s education and we want to be HEARD by school board members, not condescended and told that everything is great.

Here’s an idea – Let’s start by honestly and accurately stating out loud the current status of our school system. Then, let’s do a complete inventory of what we have in our toolbox. Be sure to recognize that toolbox includes parents and teachers with ideas for how we can see all of our children achieve their highest potential. Now, take that toolbox and let’s ALL start fixing what is broken.

criminalizing cigarettes

// January 12th, 2009 // 4 Comments » // life, parenting, people, politics, teenagers, TN

I don’t smoke, so I don’t feel the personal assault that the many, many smokers in Tennessee are going to feel about the proposal to make it illegal to smoke in a car if children are in the car with you. It seems like a basic common sense choice not to smoke around children and not a criminal offense. On the other hand, earlier this week I sat in the afternoon carpool waiting for my own child and watched as someone else’s teen walked up to the car that his mother was driving. The boy who couldn’t have been more than 17, tossed his backpack in the car, pulled out a cigarette and began smoking before he was even seated in the car. His mother didn’t look very happy, but she certainly wasn’t trying to stop him either. I didn’t feel very tolerant and made a hasty and probably unfair judgment about that teen. It’s their family’s choice and I need to work on being more tolerant. In a perfect world, adults would not smoke around children and non-smokers. This isn’t a perfect world. Smoking is legal for adults and until it isn’t, smokers need to be left alone to make their choices to smoke on or in their own property, whether home, boat or auto. I truly question if the focus of anti-smoking efforts shouldn’t be on preventing new smokers instead of punishing the existing smokers.

Dear TN legislators,

// November 17th, 2008 // 10 Comments » // people, politics, TN

If your number one priority for the coming year is going to be making sure that women have to cross state lines for abortions, I just KNOW that you will also be making sure that there are laws and financial resources to do the following:
1. Make sure that ALL women have prenatal care.
2. Make sure that ALL women have long-term alcohol/drug addiction treatment.
3. Make sure that ALL women have food, clothing and shelter.
4. Make sure that ALL women are safe from abuse and crime, especially rape and incest.
5. Make effective birth control available to ALL sexually active women.

ALL women doesn’t allow the exclusion of anyone because of race, age, income, religion, sexual orientation or place of birth. In addition to caring for all women before, during and after a pregnancy, I am absolutely certain that you will also be making sure that there are laws and financial resources to do the following:
1. Make sure that EVERY child is fed, clothed and provided shelter.
2. Make sure that EVERY child has medical care.
3. Make sure that EVERY child is safe from abuse and crime.
4. Make sure that EVERY child is provided a public education.
3. Make sure that EVERY child has a home where they are loved and wanted.

EVERY child doesn’t allow the exclusion of anyone because of gender, race, age, income, religion, sexual orientation or place of birth. Of course, it shouldn’t need to be said that there will be employment available in TN for the parents of every child and eventually, for those children. I am relieved that our state has the financial resources to do all of these things simultaneously. I just need to convince all of my unemployed neighbors and friends that they are wrong about the what the priorities of this state should be right now. If you are going to make abortion illegal in TN, be sure you first make it unnecessary.

From a woman and a mother,
Cathy

flabbergasted

// November 4th, 2008 // 5 Comments » // politics, technology, teenagers, TN

“But WHY are you supporting Obama? My parents said he ___.” “My parents said they didn’t know what the Charter Amendments were, so they just voted no.”

Half a dozen 15 to 17 year-old girls stayed here last night. They grilled me about politics. They were armed with misinformation but eager to discuss issues, ideas and opinions. Some of the things that they accepted as fact were ridiculously false. Teenagers may be plugged in, but there isn’t a lot of fact checking on MySpace and FaceBook. “Every time we ask our parents or teachers for an explanation they tell us they’re too busy.” These girls who will be voting in the next four years WANTED to talk politics. What about the facts they are overhearing from their parents? Are they getting all of their information from rumors and gossip? Were we all running on misinformation before we became engaged on the Internet? Is this level of disengagement from truth only in TN? During discussions about schools in TN, I hear over and over again that “It was good enuf fer me” and I have listened to this year’s campaigns insult intelligence. How long are we going to be the state that embraces a culture of the uneducated?

signs Knoxville needs

// October 18th, 2008 // 1 Comment » // life, local, people, TN

Gallaher View – “Stay in your lane or stay off this road.”

West Town mall stairwells – “Do NOT urinate in stairwells. Moron.”

Nubbin Ridge – “No joggers. Ever.”

unisex bathrooms – “No quickies when other people are waiting for restroom.” & “Bathroom NOT soundproof.”

Everywhere else – “No spitting on sidewalk. Yuck.”

My School System Wish List

// September 15th, 2008 // 4 Comments » // local, school, TN

Children need to believe in themselves and the power of education BEFORE they leave elementary school. PTA/PTO groups should make that their focus. Outside groups need to make it their focus, too. There should be groups specifically targeting the children of incarcerated parents that instill in children the belief that they do not have to follow their parents’ footsteps. Every child needs to know that someone believes in them. East TN has GOT to let go of this false sense of pride in ignorance. Every time there is an article in the paper about a local school, someone chimes in that “If that school were good enuf fer me, it’s good enuf fer my kids.” At the First Day Festival, the number of parents who were too illiterate to write down their contact information was staggering. We can try very hard to make all parents believe that an education is the key to their child’s future, but ultimately, it has to be something that the CHILD believes.

Schools need to embrace homeschooling families and in exchange for participation in school sports and clubs, include ALL home schoolers in test score averages. Home schoolers are reaching their highest potential. They are self motivated. They are not the bad guys. Schools should encourage willing students and families to learn in the classroom AND at home. Reward students who do independent learning. Don’t make it impossible by assigning homework that is redundant and unnecessary. Time spent in a classroom doing Plato lessons is time wasted with a skilled and valuable teacher. Plato should be done after hours or from home.

At the first sign a child is struggling, parent-teacher meetings should be held to create a plan at school AND home to help the child. If the parents are lacking the skills to help their child with academics, parents need to attend classes to achieve literacy and reinforce in children the value of an education. We take parents to court when their children are truant. Why can’t we make parents attend classes if their children are failing?

IDEA needs to be completely retooled. Schools can’t provide all the services that IDEA promises and the government has not paid their promised share. Mainstreaming requires heavy usage of aides. Dumbing down classes is bad for everyone. There are teachers successfully tiering the students in the same class. Expect more from students who have the ability to do more and reward them appropriately.

NCLB needs better PR. Every time there is an article about it in the paper, some clueless commenter remarks that children shouldn’t be promoted a grade level if they haven’t learned and performed. NCLB isn’t about passing/failing. It is about offering every single child the tools they need to succeed in the school system. NCLB has many, many problems, but before it existed, children with disabilities, ESL families, homeless families and many other square pegs in round holes situations were falling through the cracks.

Children should not be attending school in trailers and crumbling classrooms when our city is overflowing with empty buildings.

School IS the only place that all children are required to be and that makes it the best place to offer other support services. That does not mean the school system is paying or doing more than education. It means that the school BUILDING is being utilized to support the families of that community in every way possible.

By high school level, ALL teachers should be incorporating technology into the classroom. If a teacher is incapable of doing something as simple as using e-mail, they do not belong in a high school.

Students who earn a GED within a specific time frame after they drop out need to be included in a school’s graduation statistics in some way. Maybe it should count slightly less, but credit still needs to be given. Every child who drops out needs to be given an exit interview to try and determine why they dropped out and what could have kept them in school.

Games Knoxvillians Play – #5

// August 9th, 2008 // 2 Comments » // local, people, TN

“Pick on Farragut”

Objective: Blame Farragut for anything you don’t like about Knoxville.
Examples: “Farragut caused urban sprawl.”
“Farragut made the downtown a service center for the homeless.”
“Farragut caused my child to be zoned out of the school in our neighborhood.”
How to play: Whenever possible, toss out verbal daggers that criticize Farragut. Counter the criticism with praise for downtown. Bonus points if you use the words “my historic neighborhood,” “walkability” or “destroyed wetlands.” In order to play this game well, you must know the home zip code of every local politician, celebrity and developer.
If you live in Farragut: You respond to this game with comments about paying more taxes than the rest of Knoxville or wide-eyed innocence.
How to win: There is no winner. The only way to win is not to play.

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