Finding Nemo lesson number one – Without bad, there is no good.
If nothing bad happens, then nothing really good will happen either. You have to take the chance on the possibility of bad or you won’t experience the good that was risky. You need to have the bad stuff to appreciate the good stuff. If everything that ever happens is good, then good becomes normal and taken for granted. If you have bad stuff mixed in, then the the things that might seem normal for others are perceived as good by comparison to the bad you’ve experienced.