Happy Birthday Tommy! I can’t believe it’s been 14 years since you came into my life. The days are so full that they fly by too quickly. You are a good person in your heart. You want to make people happy and you only want attention. You try to be funny and when you are interested in something, you put your everything into that interest. Adolescence is going to be exhausting but we’re going to find a way to make it through to the other side. A therapist once told me a story about someone dangling from a bridge, refusing to climb back up. The person holding their hand could either let go and lose that person or hold on and they both would fall. I can’t let go. I can’t fall. We have to make it.