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    cycle of stress
    Friday May 25th 2007, 11:15 am
    Filed under: me

    So far today, Amy has had minor meltdowns over spilled milk and a missing doll. Evan has the hold-me’s and I may explode if Doug doesn’t bring the car home soon. Based on Amy’s behavior, I need to internalize my anxiety more and express it less. How to implode instead of explode:

    Not eating regularly and stress give me headaches and digestive troubles. Lack of time, empty cupboards and general anxiety make it impossible for me to sit down and eat.

    not eating = headache
    headache = digestive troubles
    digestive troubles = can’t eat
    can’t eat = headache

    Or, Doug could bring the car home and I could get things done (including buying a few groceries).



    8 Comments so far

    Hi
    I read your article with interest.
    You are talking about coping. It is my clinical experience that coping styles determine jut how well you cope.
    Some people do this worse than others.
    It is not just the way that they act. It is the way that they think and feel.
    This means they enjoy a poor quality of life.
    It often, if not invariably will mean that they are prone to Anxiety or Depression.
    As a Psychiatrist for 38 years I decided that I wanted to do something to help.
    So I built, what I consider to be, a comprehensive answer. The myRay site is free Online Self-Help.
    As I say, myRay is free so why not take a peek and see if myRay can help you
    With kindest regards
    Dr. Michael Benjamin

    Comment by Dr Michael Benjamin 05.26.07 @ 1:29 am

    She may find myRay interesting (and helpful) but I think she was mostly making light of our situation with a little burlesque.

    Comment by Doug McCaughan 05.26.07 @ 8:49 am

    HAHAHA! I did the myRay test and this is what it told me.

    Comment by Kris 05.26.07 @ 3:03 pm

    Whoops!

    Comment by Kris 05.26.07 @ 3:04 pm

    Well hmph. Aparently block quote doesn’t like me here today. Here’s what it told me…

    “Your problems are making it very hard for you to cope.

    I recommend that you do not participate in our programme. I strongly recommend that you speak with your family physician or a psychiatrist.”

    How will I ever handle the rejection?

    Comment by Kris 05.26.07 @ 3:05 pm

    My results:
    * I recommend that you fully understand and acquire:
    o Time Management Skills.
    o Improved eating habits.
    o Improved exercise habits.
    o Relaxation techniques.

    Comment by cathy 05.26.07 @ 6:47 pm

    [...] posted regarding her cycle of stress by which she feeds her headaches. Dr Michael Benjamin (or a robot representing Dr Benjamin or [...]

    Pingback by Reality Me » Can you cope? 05.27.07 @ 12:10 pm

    I’m a skeert of taking psych tests. They might send the men with the little white jackets after me!

    Comment by LissaKay 05.27.07 @ 1:11 pm



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