While Sarah spends every night at a friend’s (last night) or with a friend over here (tonight), Tommy needs encouragement to socialize with others. Today he made plans to have a friend over here on Sunday night. It is a friend from his school who he usually just interacts with through the Internet. His friend is bringing over his desktop so that the two of them can play WoW on the web together. Parallel play at our kitchen table. Sigh.